Monthly Archives: December 2015

4 things You'll wish You did before midnight on New Year's Eve

4 things You’ll wish You did before midnight on New Year’s Eve

4 things You'll wish You did before midnight on New Year's EveThere are many superstitions regarding New Year’s Eve. I am not going to talk about that. What I am going to share are 4 things that you’ll wish you did before midnight on New Year’s Eve.

1. Close 2015 and plan 2016

4 things You'll wish You did before midnight on New Year's EveSet aside a few hours before the end of the year 2015 to gather your thoughts and reflect about the year behind you. Looking back on your year before midnight on New Year’s Eve helps you become aware of your life and how you were spending your time. If you find that you are not satisfied with something that you did or didn’t accomplish this past year, you can plan to achieve it in the upcoming year. I find this ritual of closing the previous year and planning the next one to be really helpful in keeping me focused on the important things in my life and also in managing my time throughout the year.

A handy way to do the closing of 2015 and planning 2016 is simply by downloading this booklet and fill it out.

Fill the Year Compass now>>>

2. De-clutter and clean

4 things You'll wish You did before midnight on New Year's Eve
Ok boys, let’s clean the walls too!

There is nothing more rewarding than getting home from a New Year’s Eve party to a clean and clutter-free apartment! It will help you to start fresh a new year. It gets you into a better mindset when starting any of your new year’s resolutions. Clean house represents a blank state. So be sure to dust, vacuum and clean your apartment long before midnight on New Year’s Eve. Here are my 5 tips on how to achieve clean house and fit body>>>

Don’t keep the clutter and trash laying around either! Make room for new and fresh things in your life! This isn’t just about throwing out your old big clothes after losing weight or donating it; it is also about freeing up your life in order for new things to be able to enter it! Creating a capsule wardrobe is a great way to have less of your old big clothes laying around and freeing up space! De-clutter by creating yourself a capsule wardrobe! Learn how to create a capsule wardrobe here>>>

 3. Finish 2 things you said you would do in 2015 but never did

I have more than 2 things that I planned on finishing in 2015 that I never got around to. So my plan is to select 2 of them and finish them before midnight on New Year’s Eve! It can be anything from a promise that you made to a friend, to giving back that book that you borrowed or finishing that work project that you’d been putting aside. This will give you the feeling of accomplishment that you need before the end of the year.

4. Give someone the gift of your undivided attention

They say that you create your world with what you pay attention to.

When you give someone your attention, you’re sending a message that they are worthy of it. Choose a person you love and give them the gift of undivided attention.

How to give the gift of undivided attention?

4 things You'll wish You did before midnight on New Year's Eve
Yes son, I am giving you the gift of my undivided attention.

Face the person you are speaking with: look at their face, because this is how you can signal that you are paying attention to them. This builds trust.

Listen before you speak: giving attention means that you listen more than you speak. Don’t be quick to reply or answer everything that the other person is telling you. Just understand what he or she is trying to tell you or communicate to you. The best conversations happen when you just listen.

Rephrase and repeat what you just heard the other person saying to you. This way he or she can be sure that you understood what they were trying to communicate to you.

Just remember: listening is not the same as paying attention.



These are just some of the things that you can do to enrich your life and the lives of others between now and before midnight on New Year’s Eve.

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How to avoid gaining weight during Christmas holiday season

How to avoid gaining weight during Christmas holiday season

How to avoid gaining weight during Christmas holiday seasonEnjoying Christmas holiday with family and friends doesn’t have to equal gaining weight and getting fat! You still have enough time until Christmas to come up with a plan and rethink your way of handling delicious food over the winter holidays – all in the name of enjoying yourself and not gain unnecessary weight!

Planning before Christmas holiday

The first stage is planning: the greatest thing about Christmas (besides being able to spend it with family and getting awesome gifts) is that you know exactly when it is – so you can prepare for it! Here are the steps you need to do before Christmas holiday gets you:

1. Cut back on the calories the week before Christmas

I’m not talking about a new meal plan or a new diet. All you need to do is cut back on the occasional desserts that you are having. Just think about all that delicious sweets and meals you’ll be enjoying with your family during Christmas time! It’s way worth it than having two spoons of Nutella right now!

2. Hide all the treats

How to avoid gaining weight during Christmas holiday seasonPut the treats out of sight so you don’t end up tempted to try them! I made a mistake of getting “healthy” versions of Christmas candy and it was displayed in a beautiful bowl in my room as a nice part of Christmas decoration. Well, the Christmas candy lasted 3 days! Whenever I walked around and took a glance, I ate one. It was gone in 3 days – and it was supposed to be for guests. The fact that it wasn’t regular but healthy candy made it worse: I didn’t feel bad when eating it, because it’s healthy! However, the calories did show up on my hips – because we all know that hips don’t lie.

3. Plan your workouts for the Christmas holidays

Come up with a Christmas holiday season workout plan! I tried so many times but I could never stick to my regular workout plan during the holiday season. There were family visits, travels, unexpected obligations that needed to be handled, changed gym opening hours and it all led to me skipping my regular workouts. One way to handle this is to have your workout plan altered so it can accommodate your busy Christmas holiday season as well.

Tip while travelling: I incorporate morning yoga to stretch out and to feel like I did something good for my health that day. It’s a 15 minute Sun Salutation sequence that wakes my body and gets me ready for the day. It doesn’t need a lot of space and it’s really handy to get you started to a busy day.

Tip while family is visiting: Check gym opening hours so I can squeeze in an hour of gym before my family wakes up. But you can come up with another plan for working out while you are spending time with family: take long walks together. You are lucky if you have visiting kids: feel free to play with them by running around the house or around! They will be happy to play and you will get your daily dose of exercise – it’s a win-win situation!

Tip while running errands: I try to use my bike whenever I can to get a daily dose of cardio workout and get myself closer to my desired bubble butt!

4. Keep yourself warm

How to avoid gaining weight during Christmas holiday season
I’ll keep myself warm with this cup of hot chocolate with extra creamer! Oh wait…

Throw on a sweater or turn the heat up! If you are cold, you are more likely to just sit on the couch with a blanket and do nothing (which is absolutely okay too). If your muscles are warm, you are more likely to engage in physical activity. So keeping yourself warm highers your chances to go for that walk or run around the block or hitting the gym. Or just keep warm by moving!

5. Plan your Christmas holiday meals

How to avoid gaining weight during Christmas holiday season
That’s your hot chocolate, candy and eggnog right there.

Rethink your traditional Christmas holiday meals: aim to use healthy, unprocessed, natural ingredients. Choose fruits and use herbs and spices instead of eating sweets! Think about how you could  use more vegetables with your current traditional Christmas recipes! Look for additional sources of protein! Plan to have healthy snacks such as veggies, fruits, nuts or cheese instead of sweets!

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5 highly useful articles I’ve forwarded my friends this week

Having various interests is useful because I come across many interesting articles and tutorials. I thought I’d share with you what I’ve shared with my friends during the last week.

Here are the 5 highly useful articles and videos I’ve forwarded my friends this week:

1. 10 minute yoga for back pain

5 highly useful articles I've forwarded my friends this weekMy friend spends a lot of time sitting in front of the computer at work. She was complaining that her back started hurting more and more. I suggested exercise, but she doesn’t have time for exercise because the holidays are coming and the workload is getting bigger. She tried yoga a couple of times, so I figured that she will be eager to try a squeeze 10 minutes out of her day to do these exercises to ease her back pain.

These are really good yoga asanas for back pain, check them out! However I would switch the second asana (Hands to toes pose – Padangustasana) with the Cobra Pose.

See the 10 minute yoga for back pain!

2. An amazing series of innovative mobility videos targeting knee pain

5 highly useful articles I've forwarded my friends this weekSeemed to me that this past week was all about injuries and pains: first my friend with her back pain complained, then my sweetest guy friend had pain in his knees. Luckily I came across this wonderful series on YouTube about mobility, and I remembered the one focusing on knee pain. So I immediately knew what he needed to do to fix his knee! He was really thankful for the great tips in that video, it’s worth a watch.

See the amazing series of innovative mobility videos targeting specific pains – knee pain!

There are many other good videos in this series that target other body parts and issues such as: low back pain, shoulder/elbow, connecting foot to hip to spine,  ankles, shoulder impingement, hamstrings, wrist mobility
SI joint, IT band syndrome/lateral knee pain, neck issues and many more.

3. Stress scale with a list of 43 stressful life events

I had experienced a lot of stress lately, and I came across this list of 43 stressful life events. It was a real eye opener to see that retirement and dismissal from work had almost the same score for how they affect health. And imagine: major holidays also made this list!

See the stress scale with a list of 43 stressful life events

4. Woman handed card on tube from an organisation which hates fat people

5 highly useful articles I've forwarded my friends this weekThis is a controversial article about a woman who was handed a card saying the word ‘fat’ and how she reacted to it. Instead of taking a moment to think about her current lifestyle choices (like I would), she took a picture and posted it on Twitter expecting people to share it to express their outrage. Spoiler alert: they did share it. I believe this was free publicity for Overweight Haters Ltd they didn’t even dreamed of having. The police is currently running an investigation on the company.

See the article: Woman handed card on tube from an organisation which hates fat people

Fun fact: pay attention to the famous fat girl angle on all her pictures.

5. The U.S. isn’t the fattest country in the world – but it’s close

5 highly useful articles I've forwarded my friends this week
“I don’t need to worry about excess calories anymore! How interesting!”

It is a chart of countries ranked by the percentage of their population that is overweight or obese – which is defined as having a body mass index of over 25. On the top of the list are 3 small islands in the Pacific with four out of five of their citizens being overweight or obese.

See the full list here: the U.S. isn’t the fattest country in the world – but it’s close

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Winter 2015/2016 Capsule Wardrobe for fit body after weight loss

Winter 2015/2016 Capsule Wardrobe for fit body after weight loss

Winter 2015/2016 Capsule Wardrobe for fit body after weight lossThe Winter 2015/2016 Capsule Wardrobe is suitable for anyone working a 9 to 5 office job (like myself) and for someone who likes to spend free time outdoors.

To see the steps of how to create a capsule wardrobe see my guide here.

The difference between dressing the fat self vs. fit body

The Winter 2015/2016 Capsule Wardrobe for my fit body after weight loss is very different from the wardrobe I had while I was overweight. One thing that highly stands out is that my current capsule wardrobe is more sophisticated and minimalistic. Looking back to my old overweight wardrobe I can’t seem not to notice how the old wardrobe popped: bright colors, giant prints, cute details. It’s like I was trying to draw the attention away from my body and insecurities of being overweight by incorporating bright colors, unusual details and latest fashion trends. My overweight wardrobe looks like my fat self was screaming “Look at me! I’m pretty! I’m confident! Just look! Loooooook! I’m not a shy fat girl, no! I’m like everybody else! I’m better than everybody else!” Oh god. I’m so embarrassed for my old fat self right now.

My overweight wardrobe looks like my fat self was screaming “Look at me! I’m pretty! I’m confident! Just look! Loooooook! I’m not a shy fat girl, no! I’m like everybody else! I’m better than everybody else!”

My fat self thought that if I ever will lose weight and become fit that I will flaunt that hot body everyday and on every opportunity that I get. I imagined that I’ll dress like the celebs on the Playmate of the year gala. No, I don’t want that for myself, so I better not get fit, I’m better than that.

After losing weight and becoming fit I’ve discovered that it was fun for awhile to try revealing clothes at stores. I would try to wear it in public, but it just felt too much, even if it made me look stunning. You don’t get many occasions in your life where you need to look like a Playmate, and even if I did, turns out I didn’t want to look like a Playmate after all.

What is the difference between dressing the fat self vs. fit body? Fat body chooses a wardrobe with clothes that draw more attention whereas a fit body chooses a wardrobe with minimal and stylish clothes.

Get a look of my Winter 2015/2016 Capsule Wardrobe

My happy little 24 piece Winter 2015/2016 Capsule Wardrobe:

Winter 2015/2016 capsule wardrobe

The concept behind the Winter 2015/2016 Capsule Wardrobe

My Winter 2015/2016 Capsule Wardrobe has to fulfill the following expectations :

  • clothes that keep me warm during long walks
  • warm but not bulky looking clothes
  • clothes that last long
  • office friendly capsule wardrobe
  • professional polished look

I will wear the Winter 2015/2016 Capsule Wardrobe throughout December, January and February (or even longer, depending on the weather). During the 3 months you are wearing your capsule wardrobe you are not allowed to buy any other clothing item. Planning your wardrobe ahead will help you spend less on clothes overall and you will be able to get higher quality items that will stand the test of time.

What my Winter 2015/2016 Capsule Wardrobe  includes and misses

What my Winter 2015/2016 Capsule Wardrobe  includes:

  • tops
  • bottoms
  • outerwear
  • shoes.

What Winter 2015/2016 Capsule Wardrobe does not include:

  • special occasion outfits (New Year’s Eve, Christmas)
  • workout wear
  • sleepwear
  • jewelry
  • underwear.

More capsule wardrobes for you to check out:

  1. Spring Capsule Wardrobe
  2. Summer Capsule Wardrobe
  3. Autumn capsule wardrobe

Need help planning a wardrobe for yourself after weight loss? Check out my guide! Click here to see it>>>